Grabbing the bull by the horns

So yes had a bit of a rant the other day and can honestly say I have now tried everything to see if/when/if I said or did something offensive.. not that this particular friend would be easily offended. Although she does have lots on her plate & that can make someone super sensitive. Sadly in my case it does cause me to think even less then usual before opening my mouth(and given how much I do have going on at the moment.. well.. has probably happened a bit more then normal)! Which is why I have grabbed the bull by the horns & asked her flat out. No answer.. which to me says either she is definitely NOT talking to me anymore & doesn't even think it worth telling me that it was for whatever reason, or... well actually I don't know another reason.
  OK update, just got a reply.. she reckons all is fine & she just has lots going on.. but given that usually she is chewing my ear off trying to de-stress, well. I have my doubts. Will see how things go.. another update.. she has just said she is sick of talking about the same shit over & over & its driving her up the wall.. sad fact is that the stuff we talk about, is all ANY of us have to talk about.. our husbands, our kids, our work (or lack there of), whats on TV what movies we wanna see etc etc.. its the stuff that life is about.. so saying you are sick of talking about it pretty much means you may as well lock yourself in your house & shut the doors & windows, don't turn on the TV & wait to die.. and it's also pretty bloody self centred to say well I am sick of talking about the same stuff, so we won't talk at all.. but don't worry cause you know, we are still mates.. but then my question is.. are we? because if you don't wanna talk about the same stuff, it pretty much means I can't talk to you and de stress.. doesn't it?!
 
  I am currently reading Anne of Green Gables by L Maud Montgomery. It was always a fave of mine (well the mini-series) as a kid & even now, I can   imagine myself away there.. and of course I always had the biggest crush on Gilbert Blythe! Who didn't! and actually having seen him in the last of the series.. well.. he is still alright in my book ha ha. Actually my husband kind of reminds me of him.. and the other 2 guys I had crushes on as a kid.. Jonathan Knight & Matthew Lloyd.. LOL..